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Every pain has a purpose

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It all started when I'm 19, I went out with a guy who was 1 year younger than me and was probably my first proper experience of dating and so called thing - "relationship". My family didn't know about everything that happen in between on that relationship. The relationship lasted a couple of years but I leave the relationship when I couldn't stand the pain it gives me. I must admit he was the source of my happiness yet he was also the reason of my misery that time. It was actually 2010 when I learned there is someone else he was seeing - it was also the year when our daughter seen the world for the very first time. Oh imagine the pain it gave me plus the pain I have to endure facing everyone in the family and people around me.

Looking back to all those painful scenarios, I'm thankful that I wasn't able to commit suicide. It's true that every pains you've endure become your cure in the long run. I must say that I am much stronger now and happy as well. Thankful that God gave me strength to face all those dark days. Thankful that I have people around me that inspire me and help me to continue to explore the world. Now, as I am writing this, I have my own family with 2 beautiful kids (my daughter & my son ) whom I spent almost all my time. I'm very grateful to the man that God have given me because he accepted me for who I am - past, present & future. Really, God is so great!

So to everyone who's into dark days because of failed relationships & other reason, 
Remember: "Pick up yourself and don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth or your reason for being because I tell  you can be happy without them."


Note: (if you can able to read this) "to you, praying & hoping you find your own happiness as well. Thank you for all those experiences - best & worst - it mold me to the person who I am now.  God bless! "

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  1. this is true. it's something i could tell my younger self, given the chance. but still, no regrets. we create our own happiness and we shouldn't wait for other people to "give" this to us, right? :)

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    1. Right mommy! It's our own happiness and we should not depend to anyone else. Thanks for dropping by!

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  2. You are so strong. And I'm glad I dropped by. So nice.

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  3. Oh I couldn't imagine what you have gone through but I'm really proud you became a better and stronger person after it! God is truly a great God.

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    1. Ako din mommy, I couldn't imagine what I've gone through but I'm truly great to Almighty God coz' I endure all the pains before. :)

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  4. True that! I've always believed that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. God gives you what you can endure. You are now a stronger woman and you've proven it. May your life be a continuous witness to God's mercy and grace. Cheers!

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  5. Your right in every pain there is a purpose why it happens and there will be always a happiness coming. nasa atin how we will handle the situation

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  6. I agree that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. May God continue to bless you and make you stronger :)

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  7. Right. Every pain, every misery, every heartache has a purpose. I always believe that all my failed relationships brought me to where I am now.

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  8. God gives challenges to the strong. You are indeed one strong mommy. God bless you :)

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  9. Kaya mo yan! Accept the challenge and move on!

    xoxo
    MrsMartinez

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  10. Everybody deserves being treated well. Personally, I don't want to be in an unhealthy relationship. Why settle if things are really REALLY no longer working? Being pained is one good way of learning and growing. I, for one, have learned and grown from my painful past, and I am just happy to have gone through those tough times. Now, I'm not and will never settle for anything that will leave me in tears. I think, being single brings out the best in me. I love how I'm doing every thing independently. No more time for drama! Haha

    Thanks for sharing this, glad your happy now with your own family. :)

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  11. I admire you for being brave enough to face all those pains and moving past it.

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  12. Cheers to you who ables to overcome those time of pain and difficulty and for never giving up. God is indeed good, all the time.

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